Sunday, May 10, 2009

I learned it from...

The average parent wants everything best for their child, correct? They want them to grow up and have everything they want. What they dont realize is, like how i posted in my older post that they do everything that their parents do , monkey see monkey do. Children are at high risk for substance abuse and well as viloent and domestic abuse and can become abusers because of what they and what they reanact. The video below basically explains everything that I've been wanting to get out there.

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  1. Yes of course all parents want the best for their children. Parents go give their children unconditional love and give them all the things necessary to live a roof over their heads, food, education, money, and they teach them many things. But sometimes parents do not realize some of the things their kids learn from them, are things they are not even meaning to teach them at all, like monkey see monkey do, kids do what ever they see their parents doing. Parents are the biggest role model in their children's lives, kids just want to be like their parents. Kids look up to their parents for advice and they also learn ways to react in certain situations from their parents. Just like in this video the child sees how the mother gets mad on the phone so the child copies, one of the parents discriminate against someone and that is how a child learns to be racist, and when a child sees their father hit their mother; the child would think it is okay to hit his mom and maybe even hit other woman in the future. Parents do not realize that their every move is being watched and absorbed by their child and they are someday going to repeat their parents sam actions. i know from babysitting this one young girl, she is three years old she has everything like her mother her nail polish, clothes, right down to her hair cut. The little girl says it all the time I am my mommas twin. So parents should be careful of what they do and say n front of their children because they definitely will repeat you one day.

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